Where we’re staying
Ace Hotel Brooklyn
Boerum Hill. A mile from the venue, and the lobby bar is where you’ll find us the morning after.
Wedding Party
RSVP
We can’t wait to see you all.
We have your reply.
The Schedule
Dress code
Cocktail attire
Suits, cocktail dresses, whatever makes you feel like the best-dressed person at a Brooklyn dinner party. The ceremony is in the garden and the night ends indoors. Late September runs cool after dark, so bring a layer worth being photographed in.
The After-Party
We close the doors at 11. After that: a spontaneous, to-be-determined NYC after-party for anyone still standing. If you’re in, plan accordingly.
Getting There
Give yourself more time than you think you need. Travel in and around New York City is chaotic at best. Please allow extra time getting into the city, to and from the airport, to and from your hotel, and especially to and from the venue, so you don’t miss any of the festivities.
Where to Stay
We’re not holding a room block, so stay wherever suits you. There are a thousand hotels in this city. These are four we’d actually vouch for, all a short ride from the venue.
Where we’re staying
Boerum Hill. A mile from the venue, and the lobby bar is where you’ll find us the morning after.
The splurge
Dumbo. Skyline and harbor views, right on Brooklyn Bridge Park.
The boutique
Boerum Hill. Smith Street, surrounded by the restaurants we actually go to.
The practical
Downtown Brooklyn. Clean, close, breakfast included.
A note on Airbnb. Short-term rentals are technically restricted in New York City and bookings can be cancelled on short notice. If you go this route, have a backup in mind.
Registry
but for those who have kindly asked, we’ve created the two funds below to contribute to our future together.
One more thing. A card means just as much. No boxes to ship, no toasters to open.
Our Story

RumiThe minute I heard my first love story
I started looking for you, not knowing
how blind that was.Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere.
They’re in each other all along.
























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FAQ
We’re keeping this one small on purpose. Your invitation is addressed to everyone in your party, and we can’t wait to celebrate with exactly you.
A couple of very special small people made the list. Otherwise, consider it a night off.
The ceremony is unplugged. Our photographer will catch everything, and we’d rather see your faces than your phones. After that: we’re leaving film cameras around all night, including a vintage 8mm-style movie camera. Pick one up and shoot away. Grainy, imperfect, and exactly how we want to remember it.
This is the whole show: the wedding, then the after-party. Book your flights around Saturday night and you’re covered.
By August 28, please, right here on this site.
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If this feels low-tech, that’s on purpose. Registry sites usually add up to 5 percent to your gift at checkout, and you pay it, not us. Venmo and PayPal don’t, as long as you send from your checking account and not a credit card, and a check costs nothing at all.